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MLeth's thoughts - Internet communication

Journal Entry: Thu Mar 17, 2011, 8:47 AM
Lol - Rofl - Wtf - Lmao - Gr8


Internet language is something I believe we take for granted this far into the internet generation. Conversations through MSN, Skype, ICQ, cellphones and so on is something we all have on a daily basis and the language we use there has devolved since the first time we did it.

Then:

"Haha, man, you should've seen what I did on the party last night! It was awesome! Call me! Oh, and by the way - Don't thank me for the girl I sent your way (;"

Now:

"Lol u shudve seen what I did on teh party last night man it was azum lmao call me and btw your welcome 4 the girl I sent ur way (;"


Sure, you could argue that it's far easier to type like the latter one, shortening words for convenience sake, especially if typing on a cellphone. But if you are typing on a keyboard I just dont think it is necessary to make yourself sound stupid. Because that is what you are doing. It might be very normal to you to type like a retarded porkchop, I can't argue with that, even I type like that!

But what this also does to this generation of kids is that it doesn't teach them how to be literate, rather, it teaches them that typing like that is okay, because the cellphone they got from their parents is something every kid should have these days. If they don't have one, they will nearly get bullied. Sure, they get taught in school how to write, but I can assure you that kids nowadays uses their cellphones or computers to communicate with their friends more often than they use a pencil and paper.

Another thing that can become a huge problem when having a text-based conversation online is that you can't read the other parts body language or listen to the sound of their voice. It is impossible, so that leads to ALOT of misunderstandings when you or your friend attempts sarcasm or irony. If you don't know your friends way of typing, you can get emotionally hurt. I know this from personal experience. We have come to a point were we communicate online more than in real life - Of course, this doesn't include everyone! No, alot of people doesn't even know what a smiley is when typed.

But even if you do know your friends way of typing online you can impossibly have as much combinations of body language than the combinations of words.
Maybe your friend does something with his eyes when he jokes, maybe he bends his body in some way when he is sarcastic. These features are something that text can NEVER simulate.

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I hate to see people trolling or acting condecending towards players in online games because they might not reply to their messages in like a second I get sick. Because I know that some people just can't type in english and for that they get bullied. Like my 12 year old nephew, who for some reason plays World of Warcraft. He can't type in english yet, at least not very well. And when I see him play dungeons, which he's very good at despite his lack of english-knowledge, getting screamed at by the "pros" it's just.. Yeah. And by screaming I mean using "caps".
When I see people having conversations in World of Warcraft I almost get depressed when I think that that might be those peoples only social engagement that day.

EXAMPLE:


- rofl
Jim's character jumps constantly up and down.
- I kno riet lmao
- so I herd u got a new haircut
- irl?
Brian's character stands still as Jim runs around him in circles then stopping after another jump.
- y ofc lol
- y but the barber suck'd LOL


Brian's eyes met Jim's as they passed each other in the hallway leading up to the lockers.
- Oh my God, you got a new haircut, Jim? He snickered, immedietly turning his body towards Jim with a smile.
Jim pierced his ears as he heard his friends voice faintly through his hearing plugs. He then looked up, removed one of his hearing plugs from his MP3-player and gave Brian a sarcastic smile.
- Yeah, man... But the barber cut it too short...

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Even trying to write something better there I still can't convey as much feelings, emotion and messages as being in front of the one you're speaking with.

I know that this is something we all are dealing with but take my advice and don't be afraid to ask your friend what he meant with something instead of jumping to conclusions. It is troublesome but necessary if you don't want your friend to kick your ass by spreading rumors about you for misunderstanding him (:

EXAMPLE:


Jenny is in a pretty bad mood for being in her period - Ben is in a great mood.

Ben: Heeey Jenny watsap! : D
Jenny: Hi : ) Not much
Ben: How are you cutie-face? ;D : )
Jenny: I'm fine ^^ How about you?
Ben: I'm grrrreat! : DD


Jenny is in a great mood - Ben is in a pretty bad mood since he didnt get invited to one out 9 parties in town.

Jenny: Hey ben!
Ben: ...
Jenny: What's the matter?
Ben: nothing
Jenny: You can tell me, I'm your friend! ^^
Ben: everything sucks
Jenny: Are you okay?
Ben: ...
Ben: no
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Now, from previous experiences Jenny might be used to Ben using alot of smileys in their chats. And now he's not using any, he's not using capitol letters and he's talking as if he's about to kill himself. Of course that makes Jenny very concerned and getting the feeling that something is horribly wrong when in reality Ben is just a bit angry.
How would Jenny know that? She couldnt. She couldnt read Ben's face or his body, leading to a clear misunderstanding.


We're all used to it at this point, but having someone being literate when talking online is very refreshing to see. If you see someone not using smileys you might think that he's weird or appearing to be in a foul mood when he's in reality just not comfortable with using them.
Someone seeing someone using alot of smileys might think that he's a little 13-year old kid when he's in reality 27 years old.

We don't know and we won't know until we ask and stop being prejudice about our fellow onliners!
I could go on and talk about emoticons and all that too but I think you get the point!
I hope this awfully long journal made you think in any case (:

Jump down and check the comments for more examples about this!

/MLeth out


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~Aya-Soran Mar 20, 2011  Student General Artist
I totally agree! I think it is pretty sad that college English teachers/professors have to write on their boards and give out handouts to not use text talk in essay's, papers, etc.
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~ShadowKing1988 Mar 18, 2011  Hobbyist General Artist
(*Applause*) Bravo! Well said, Mathias. You've touched on what I believe will one day become a major issue.

I too have my problems with this whole L33T Speak thing. I've seen at least a couple million different abbreviations/emoticons, and I don't even have a clue what an increasing number of those mean! In one case, I had to do a Google search to learn that 'OTL' is not an abbreviation but a Korean emoticon for something like defeat or shame (supposed to be a man kneeling on the ground with his hands downward and hanging his head).

Another little thing that irritates me that I see quite often is failure to observe proper grammar conventions. We all know to capitalize proper pronouns and place punctuation where appropriate. For example:

"ill" instead of "I'll"

Some people don't seem to realize 'I' is a proper pronoun and should be capitalized. The presence of the apostrophe makes a difference too, as it distinguishes "I will" from a state of sickness.

What burns me most about our web-obsessed culture, though, is some people's depence on cell phones. A few months ago, I had a cousin who would not stop sending text messages at the dinner table even after her mother (my aunt) repeatedly asked her to stop. There is also the fact some people can't seem to live without mobile web access, photo-messaging, Twitter, Facebook, etc. It almost scares me how people forget a phone was made originally for just calls and texts. You don't need a cell phone for anything else. That's why computers haven't become obsolete yet.

Whoa...Sorry, man. Didn't mean to rant like that, but it's out of my system now. Anyway, thanks again for the call to issue.
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~Tablis Mar 18, 2011  Professional General Artist
Actually I rather to interact in person with a friend or someone else, but when some matters interfere on that preference(distance, for example), I try my best to make myself clear on typing -which is usually a massive failure...
Or my brain is failing for typing correctly and ponctuate properly or the "internerds" are getting a smaller brain for typing too abreviated or faster enough... '^'
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:iconjojo-xd:
jag känner mig alltid så dum när jag försöker tyda vad som står på vissa text meddelanden osv. har aldrig riktigt förstått "internet" språket x3 kan bara vissa förkortningar som lol, brb eller omg och några till men inte många. ^^;
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=MLeth Mar 19, 2011  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Haha, well, du behöver egentligen inte veta så många fler än dom där :dummy: Om folk behöver använda onödiga förkortningar för att uttrycka sig så är de deras problem ;D
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:iconjojo-xd:
jupp det har du rätt i :dummy:
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:icontaercenn:
Funny. I spend a lot of time on the internet, playing World of Warcraft, some other online games, visiting forums, etc. I've been doing so for the last several years. Yet somehow, I have never been able to get used to internet speak; it makes my brain hurt.
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=MLeth Mar 19, 2011  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Yeah, and it makes people appear to be so much more stupid than they are! xD It's kinda sad
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~Panda-chan164 Mar 17, 2011  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I member once about 6 years back we were typing a report for english and this girl next to me kept typing "u" when saying you on the report and having to go back and fix it and I go "Um..U is a letter.." Not snobby, I never texted before and I didn't have a computer back then so I didn't know the computer lingo and she goes "well I'm sorry I'm not a nerd like YOU"..yes..Because being literate and knowing how to spell and punctuate correctly makes me SUCH a nerd
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=MLeth Mar 19, 2011  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Oh lordy, sounds like your friend there is so insecure that she makes you look like the nerd for knowing basic grammar : D
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